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*keez
writes:hey guys just a little probem i have that is niggling in my head for a while now. ill try and kee this short and to the point.i am i mysecon year of uni and i live in a house share and my flat met with the upstairs flat a few months ago and i met one of the guys up there. we got on really well, we chatted about uni, hed good banter, danced with each other when we were out and everyone in my flat said he looked like he was flrting with me. when we got back to the house we were left on our own and i think he wanted to kissme but I idnt want to seem easy so avoided it n the end.Next time we met up just to go to the shops to get food and i was really shy but tried to talkto him, buthe didnt talk back much. the next time we all went out as a house, he completely ignored me, when i tried to talk to him he walked off to someone else. it offended me and i tried to just ignore it. Well aout a month later i find out he has a new girlfriend. I felt funny and a bit jealouss and i wondered if that was a sign that i ctually did like him mor than i thought. wel its ben more than 1 month now since we spoke to each other, we do see each other sometimes, very rarely when pasingeach other but no hello's, no waves and its bothering me, ecuase i dont know hy he dislikes me so much. im kind of over liking him because i dont wat to have to settle with a guy who treats me lie that but im just confussed. I would ask him what his problem is but i dont know ho to suggest it. also i deleted him from facebook becuase i dnt keep people on there i dnt talk to, i added him again ad he rejected.i find this so rude and it bothers me that someoe can act this way towards me when i was just being nice.
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reader, Skeez +, writes (21 November 2010):
Skeez is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you guys so much for your input i really appreciate it =]
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Hi well if am honest with you i dont think he dislikes you at all, i think its just male ego, going back to the night he tried to kiss you and you avoided it, in his head this was rejection and he probably thought aw she doesnt like me and to a man thats just crushing his ego therefore straight away his barrier went up and he kept his distance from you as he didnt want to be rejected again.
So he met this other girl and is now going out with her and he is ignoring you and again its all due to male ego and him thinking you rejected him, but in fairness he is acting quite immature about the whole situation. Maybe he still likes you and that is why he is staying away from you and ignoring him.
Ok so you can try and forget about his behavior but if it is anoying you then tell him how you feel, next time you see him pull him aside and tell him you need to talk to him alone, tell him that you thought he was a lovely guy and you were really beginning to like him and now you are confused as to why he is ignoring you, tell him it is hurtful and you want to know what you done wrong. Goodluck.
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