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female
age
30-35,
*essmca
writes:So I had a very serious relationship last year and it ended in July 16, 2010. After my ex and I broke up we didn't talk for awhile, and he got a new girlfriend and everything and he started talking to me again and he still had strong feelings for each other and we wanted to be with each other cause we were soo serious about each other. Then we stopped talking again cause he found out he was moving and he had that other girl still. Everything was messed up. Now he is in Georgia and we started talking again except this time it's better than ever. We both still wanna be with each other and nothing is really negative. He is coming to visit for Thanksgiving break next week, and I am seeing him. I am pretty nervous but in a excited way. He is very excited too. But the thing is.. His parents are the one who ended out relationship. They don't want us together because they think it's too serious of a relationship and apparently they "don't like me" and I have not did anything wrong. My "boyfriend" is keeping everything secret from his parents and it's pretty hard for him to see me. Everything has to be secretly done. My parents love my boy, and are willing to talk to him and his parents. I just want them to accept where I could fly out there in Atlanta and see him and everything would be perfect. But my boy doesn't want my parents talking to his, he wants to wait till he's 18 and moves back to Denver to be with me.What should I do, how should I take care of this?
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reader, Level22  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 You broke up and he dated another girl. Did you date another guy? He wants to wait until he is 18 before the parents meet. Sounds to me like he is calling the shots in this relationship. I would sit back relax and do fun things and tell him when he is 18, call me and we shall discuss this further. I would not fly out to meet him. Let him come to you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Ok first off how long is it until he turns 18? I think you should respect his wishes her and dont get your parents involved, i know they are only trying there best for you, but it will only make matters worse if this is not what your boyfriend wants. As for his parents i doubt they dislike you as such they probably just dont want seeing there son getting so serious about a girl when he is so young and they might not like you for this but dont worry am sure it is nothing personal. Just take things as it comes, meet up at thanksgiving next week and have fun maybe then you can discuss what you are going to do in the future goodluck.
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