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30-35,
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writes:hi there, well i have a problem i'm dealing with right now. my boyfriend is out of the city for a couple of months doing a recruting thing, honestly before he left he really didn't say "i love you" as often as i wanted to hear it and right now i'm getting really close to my best friend, i've known my bestfriend for some time now and i've recently started to developing strong feelings for him, but i love my boyfriend, we've been together for almost 2 years now, i'm confused, what should i do? should i tell my boyfriend? should i wait and see where things left off? i need help ASAP! .. signed, Confused and Worried.!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 November 2010):
This is the sort of thing that tests a relationship, and to be honest, is you're feeling this way, you need to ask whether your boyfriend is the 'one'. Realistically, if you were that close to your boyfriend, the distance wouldn't have mattered. But here, it does. And it's showing, perhaps, that your boyfriend is not the guy for you. I would suggest sitting down alone, and deciding whether you'd be better, at your age, just having some fun with a few different guys. One day you'll meet the right one. But I don't think your boyfriend is the man for you at this time.
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