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anonymous
writes:I broke up with my bf last monday.. We have been together for 7 months.The reason why I broke up, one day I asked him about his facebook and he told me that his little bro is using his account and he doesnt want to open a fake account so he can see what his little bro is doing.. when I asked him but I saw ur fb lots of girls who are 26 years old and he told me oh some of them my friends and Iam still check what my little bro is doing.. After 4days, I asked him to show his fb profile and he told me he doesnt know his password which doesnt make sense and I feel like he is hiding smt from me..Then my friend used my pics on dating website and he told me his friends saw my profile and sent it to his email but I when I checked his friend profile on the datins site, all information matches with him not his friend.. anyways thats why I broke up.. he texted me a lot and wanted me and need me and loved me.. He explained me the reason why I didint want to add u on facebook because some of my friends eventhough they still know Ive gf thet keep writing HEy lets go out or how u doing like single boy idk he didint tell me the details but they wrote smt on his profile and told me that I took so serious which is written on fb thats why we argue thats why he doesnt want to add me and told me ok I will add but if u make a problem I will delete as a friend then I pissed off told him no we cant together then he hung up on me. After that he texed me that I ruined him bla blah.. I was so upset and feel like cheated.. Idk what to do and only 3 days ago we decided to meet and talk about the problems.. he didnt text me and I didnt do it either now he hasn't texed or called me for 3 days. I love him so much and I dont know what to do..Just need your help.
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reader, raiders +, writes (1 April 2010):
 I think that people should have their own privacy Facebook is his own profile but I do think he should have you as a friend If there is nothing to hide than why not add you, it seems to me that he is willing to add you but don't want you to interpret things others post wrong and cause trouble in your relationship it seems like you might be a little jealous. Now you have a picture in a dating profile and you got caught by your boyfriend that is the reality you got caught and try to blame him for his friend profile because you said it matches your boyfriend info not his friends but yet you said the info but I'm assuming the name and pictures were his friend right, I think you are trying to point fingers and blame him for it because you broke up with him for this dating profile when in fact it was you that got caught. Some people get tire of playing games or over protective girlfriends. If he calls you talk to him be more positive and don't blame blame blame thats not good. Good Luck I hope this helps**Keep me posted**
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reader, raiders +, writes (31 March 2010):
Even if he has a FB you should be one of his friends, you were his girlfriend so he should not be mad over that. Now him having a profile on this dating site sounds like he is/was looking for a little action. He is a little a immature and is trying to play games. I think you should probably let him go do not pursue him, he didn't call you have some self respect and don't call or text him back. I now this has to be your decision I hope the best for with or with out him. Good Luck!
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reader, mslovely +, writes (30 March 2010):
 You may love him a great deal, but it sounds like he is not ready to let go off his "childish" ways. and is not respecting your relationship. I would say, in my eyes, he is not ready for what you asking. Just cut the ties now instead wasting your time with this young man. He sounds immature and afraid of moving on. But we gotta love em, don't we. They get better with age, girl. Believe me. there are many many men out there ready and willing to give you what you want, now. and facebook and myspace are gateways to meeting chicks and i take it pretty serious if someone is asking my man to hang out with them via internet or phone or whatever. it is what it is. good luck and best wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo u misunderstood.. he never add me as a friend.. he doesnt want me to see his profile then I asked him to be his friend and he told me Ok I will add but if u take facebook too serious and make it problem I will remove u as a friend.. because I mentioned about it. his some friends had written smt on his wall even though they know him he is a relationship.. which doesnt make sense to me..
and also we texted 3 days ago that we were supposed to meet and talk. Neither he or I text each other since 3
days about meetin up.. Because we are not together right now.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Meet up with him and tell him you dont wanna be his friend on facebook. (silly you,now that he will have u as a friend he will find other ways to communicate with girls!)...U should do a fake account some time later and add him or something.Make ur account on FB "private". that will let him wonder.
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