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Should I continue pressuring a friend to have a relationship me even though he doesn't want to?

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Question - (30 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my friend and i have known each other for almost 8 years. him and me have been having sex or years. i've always pressure him to be in a relationship with me. we haven't spoken in two months because he got tired of me telling him to be with him. he change his number, should i go to his house to see him or leave him alone?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2010):

Oh dear. He's taken as much as he can take I'm afraid. And you're developing a dangerous obsession that could land you in court or something. He doesn't want be with you, and is now moving on with his life. You need to do the same.

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A male reader, Myau New Zealand +, writes (30 March 2010):

Myau agony auntOk you refuse to learn your lession.

True love is mutual, that means you love him and he loves you... you dont have that. Thus you have nothing.

You have waisted several years of your life, so enough pls.

Find someone you like and who will want to be with you

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (30 March 2010):

Umm he doesn't want to talk to you and he even changed his number so that he doesn't have to speak to you. I would advise not going to his house unless you want to be stalker status. If it's been years of you pressuring him into a relationship and he won't have it, take it as "he's just not that into you."

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