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writes:Help, I have recently became depressed because I have never been kissed before let alone have had a girlfriend. Is this normal? All the other males have girlfriends and it makes me sick and depressed when I can't find one of my own, hell some are planning to get married when they leave high school.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Yep, normal.
I'm a senior in high school now and the experience spectrum varies a lot.
Some are like you, some have slept with 10 people.
It's better to be on your end, in my opinion :)
I'm not a virgin, personally, but I have lots of friends like you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): Definitely normal. I'm a girl, but I didn't get my first kiss until 15. I wasn't ready until then. You'll be ready soon enough and you'll find a good girl. And, please, do find a good girl. Don't let any skank play with your heart!
You might think no girls like you, but you'd be surprised at how many girls probably have their eye on you. A lot of times people are just too shy to say it.
And the friends that are planning on marriage right after high school...trust me, that won't happen.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 March 2010):
Yes, perfectly normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): i am 29 years old female i am still waiting on my 1st kiss because won,t give me the time of time of day let alone kiss me.i am i still waiting on my 1st so called boyfriend.so you luck in caparison to me.so i think i,ll give on idea at thsi stage
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reader, Kenj +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Yes its normal, I never had a proper girlfriend until I was 19. Dont give up, your young and still have a lot of life to live to the full!
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reader, Myau  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 I havoe to tell you something, I was 19 when I met my first girlfriend. Yup 19! No high school sweetheart and you know what, Im happy.
I fugure in my case it was down to 2 reasons: firstly I wasnt ready for all that at the time and secondly that there just wasnt a girl in school that i really liked.
You will be shocked at how many girls will like you and want to date you. Also several girls who wont even look at you now will be chasing you in adult life. See becoming an adult is like a big reset switch, so who was cool isnt anymore and ther is no pressure from friends to date.
Now that Im much older and have had too many gfs lol, I dont look back and wish id ben with someone then.....and niether will you.
Enjoy been a teen and let the adult crap come when it does
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 March 2010):
 You should not be worried about this at your age. Your time will come and it will simply be easily forgotten soon. Just smile at the next girl you fancy and see what happens. You will need to make the first move, and she will most likely allow a kiss, and more, if she likes you.
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reader, 333 +, writes (30 March 2010):
Of course its normal! I'm 16 and never had a boyfriend. Cheer up (: you will find her ... Don't rush into things!
Good luck.
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reader, OrangeJuice +, writes (30 March 2010):
 What is normal may not be important! People move at their own pace physically, if you are interested in getting a girlfriend then begin your search at school, flirt with girls you like or think you may learn to like, put yourself out there. There is no need for you to feel depressed about such a trivial matter, if you are interested in a girl, just ask her for her number, ask her on a date and soon enough you will have your first kiss with a girl you are interested in!
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