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writes:hi, i am female 30 years old and i never even got my 1st kiss nor 2nd kiss or 3rd kiss. never had a 1st boyfriend either, I know I am very heavy, unattractive face, short, I have been rejected more times then i count. I feel such an abnormal freak. Please don't be harsh, i have low self esteem and image problems. I hate my fat face, who would kiss a gross fat face and out proportion. hHw pathetic am I?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 March 2010):
It's your esteem that's holding you back. Men can smell low self esteem a mile away, and it makes us really scared. Focus on yourself and your confidence and life. Understand why you have low esteem, even of that means counselling. You need to know why you feel this way, and you need to build upon it. When you're happier with yourself, men will notice you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): You are just focusing on the negative here- instead you need to focus on the positive. You need remember that you're special and unique and have a lot to offer! Maybe you're a caring friend or great cook- whatever if may be- and focus on those positive traits. Regarding your looks, real beauty is on the inside- looks can only get you so far. Do something for yourself- get your hair done or get a nice outfit. If you feel good about yourself, then people will take notice. Work on meeting guys and becoming friends with them. Do any of your friends or family members know someone to set you up with? Take a chance and go on a blind date- if it doesn't work, at least you know you tried and gave it all you got. Focus on the positives and remember that you are beautiful, both inside and out!
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reader, mslovely  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Hi there,
I am writing this in hopes to lift your broken spirit. Your words touched a soft spot in my heart. I am a woman and understand the pain it is to get rejected. However, please, please, don't get down on yourself. There is someone out there for you. Please try to change your thinking and be positive. You are alive and enjoy your life for you....The more you love YOURSELF it becomes more possible for someone else to love you. You are beautiful! You are wonderful! Live your life happily! xoxoxoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): You are beating yourself up too much. But..... not to be mean... have you done everything you can to improve your image?
You complain that you are over weight, but do you care enough to change that aspect of your life?
There are some things in this world you have control over. Your weight is one of those things.
Improve what you can and leave the rest to fate.
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