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anonymous
writes:I am completely in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do. It started a few months ago when we first met and i'd just split with my ex boyfriend and he really cheered me up. i have told him i like him and he says that he does too but the trouble is is that not long after i said that he told me he was going out on a date with someone else while i was off work for 2 weeks. it did bother me but i didn't say anything. When I did come back we had a chat about it and he said that he wasn't talking to her because she didn't tell him she had a kid and like an idiot i told him to call her and that i can't be selfish. But since then i've had stronger feelings for him and i've tried to ignore them but they won't go away. please help. i really want him to be happy but i don't want to feel like this anymore.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 It seems like neither one of you is in a relationship right now.
You KNOW what you want, go grab it. If you don't strike while the iron is hot, sometimes you miss your opportunity.
Je repete: You know what you want, why aren't you making a move? Life is too short to let opportunities pass you by!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2010): Why don't you think he could be happy with you? Tell him how you feel. The longer you wait, the harder it will be.
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