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writes:Ok, we have been going out together since the end of Jan. He hasnt made a move on me physically until now. However we have amazing conversation and we know everything about each other. I thought I was more into him but recently he invited me to a black tie event as his date for his fathers company's spring dance. So I think he is in to me as well.Oh and he's painfully shy when it comes to showing emotion however, he is brilliant otherwise. He goes very red when he talks to me and his pupils are huge when we are together! We went out on Valentine's Day h/w no one wished each other.He took me out on my birthday as well. I have a feeling he already considers me his girlfriend but can't say it. The physical intimacy should follow, eh?We are both exchange students in a different country. I pretty sure he has no one back home because his parents know about me.So are we going out? Oh he asked me to the ball through a text, the shy lad :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): If you don't want to ask him this is what you do go out with other friends and him... ask one of your friends to ask him if you two are going out and if he said yes then ok and if he saids no then your going to have to make the frist move
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reader, c_keller  +, writes (30 March 2010):
Talk to him about it. I know no one likes that what are we conversation but it's more painful not knowing right?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 You can call him boyfriend he shouldn't be surprised and it looks like you will be moving into that direction. For me, two months of dating is still too soon. I would want to stay in the infatuation period a little longer, take my time, prolong the sense of mystery, and let things flow naturally.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (30 March 2010):
 I would suggest asking him what he thinks about your relationship. I.e what is his take on where you are and where you are going
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (30 March 2010):
 lol...i think u are going out,hes just the shy type.
time to heat things up :D
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (30 March 2010):
 If he is shy its likely he is waiting to see where you stand. Sit down alone with him one day and tell him you like him (in a more than friendly way) if he says the same, give him a kiss to break the ice.
It sounds like he is waiting to make sure exactly where you both stand. Since he is shy, the ball is in your park.
Best of luck.
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reader, lozaploza +, writes (30 March 2010):
I think you should go for it and ask him.if he is painfully shy then he may be unsure himself and wanting you to confirm it.otherwise he faces potentially rejection-something which everyone avoids.so just ask him.. Casually...dont make it too big a deal...then you will know for sure....xxx
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reader, TimmD +, writes (30 March 2010):
 Well, it's sounds like you have a boyfriend to me. Since he sounds very shy I suggest just stepping up and tell him "I want to be your girlfriend!" Shy guys like that like it when the girl takes the initiative. Physical intimacy should come eventually but if he's shy with that you may have to make the first move.
He may just be a gentleman. :-)
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