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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Been with my boyfriend for more than a year now, we got along great had so much fun together. he made me the happiest girl alive and i felt so lucky to have him as he did with me. but this past month things have changed, its like everything i do is wrong, i feel like he puts me down alot, the other night we had a few drinks at my house, he payed no attention to me all night just sat with his mates (he never normally does that) and then he started mentioning some girls name saying she still had his coat (a past girl) i just think its unfair that he rubs it into my face... he gets funny if i talk to a boy and last night he started being sarcastic towards me saying " oh yeah you always rip my clothes off", basically hes saying i dont, i just feel like im no longer good enough for him, he makes me want to cry at times.I feel like maybe hes bored of sex with me because of what he said last night, i cant talk to him he never listens and i dont know how much more of it i can take. am i just being unfair? or do i have the right to feel this way because he always makes me feel like its my fault. he says he loves me a lot but sometimes i feel like he is controlling me, i have already lost my friends, all i have left is him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 March 2010):
I don't know how much more you can take either. One thing I do know is that you can do better than a guy who goes on about his ex in your face. Why settle for second best?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 March 2010):
I think your relationship has run its course. Dump the guy and start making new friends.
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