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female
age
26-29,
*ozaploza
writes:Ok... so basically my best friend was going out with this guy Matt.. ok so Matt is like the best looking guy in the year.. hes gorgeous.. you know high cheekbones, pert lips, models blah blah blah. Anyway.. when he and her were going out he would call me up and ask what to do (we were never really friends before) so I felt obligated to help her. He used to call me up every single night for 1.30 hours which was really annoying cause in my boarding school.. in my dorm it pissed me and my dorm mate off. Anyway, so we became really good mates and spent loads of time together. One time on a walk ( after 3 hours talking) he took me into the old pavillion and tried to pull me. I really liked him... like so much... but the image of my best friend came into my mind and I just couldn't.. he kept on being like "come on lets just get off blah blah blah" and I was like "no..." Anyway, then we broke up for the xmas.. he broke up with my best friend and got with another. She was called Ella.. she adored him and he knew it. They ended after like 3 weeks. So anyway back at school we were still friends but he was still being weird.. one minute he was all gallant and heroic (I was in the san when a snowball hit me and he came and heard that I was there and sat with me until I was better.. which meant he would get into trouble..) then one minute he was barely talking to me. He would lead me on being like "I need a serious relationship etc" "I need someone who gets me like you do" blah blah. One day I just snapped.. after he had been weird and ignoring me I sent him a text being like can I see you? I need to talk... I needed to talk to him cause it had bugged me why he had tried to get with me.. did he think I was a slut? Or that he could get with me? Or that it was ok? So he arrived with ella....(we never ever meet up with other people) the irony of it being her and he was so rude and moody made me so angry. I went back to the house and I just cried and cried and cried. I felt completely humiliated and used. I thought he liked me. He tried to call me and I just ignored him and sent this text being like why do you mess people around etc. We ignored each other for the next week.... and then in the holidays I sent him a text being like I'm sorry I just dont understand you etc and he called me... but we just talked like friends... we didnt talk about what happened. I got back to school and he completely ignored me... so i ignored him back... but I really really like him and I just want him back as a friend cause I miss him... so much. And i cant get over him. And I don't know how long it will take him to start talking to me.. its been 5 weeks.... but i am really stubborn so I just ignore him too... Any advice would be amazing xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): I would say to leave it, anyways it's hard to have relationship at King's ,and he doesn't like you so I'd move on sorry xxx
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