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writes:Ok guys,I'm about to go nuts.I started talking to a guy on tagged probably 2-3 months ago.He would always message me ask me how i'm doing etc.We would have serious convos sometimes,he confessed im one of the very few women he can carry a decent convo with...etc.We never talked on IM,since he never asked,i didnt ask him either.Things were pretty casual between us,I knew whenever I'd log on that website and he was on,he would hit me up etc.So why am I writing here ? Hrmwell, 3 weeks ago or something he hit me up like he usually did,and we had a kind of missunderstanding in our conversation.Nothing big,its not like we had never had any missunderstanding before.Days passed and he wouldnt be online everyday,or when he was,he didnt hit me up. I sent a message asking him if he's ok,he didnt reply.Today i saw him on and messaged him "how you doing" he didnt reply back. I'm gonna go crazy.lol.Seriously,why would someone that enjoys messaging you and always messages you first doesnt even want to reply to one simple message?During the time we werent talking,I did some search on him.Before,it was as if i didnt care,since i knew he was talking to me. I found him on facebook and myspace,I was pleased to see hes a decent guy with decent friends,nothing weird.He told me he was laid off from his job,so im guessing he might have found a new job thats why hes busy but all this is just assumptions.What should I do? I will feel really stupid if I message him again and he doesnt reply.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Dear Mizz Butterflies: What was the misunderstanding? I might be able to help you here but I need more info. You can private post me if you feel uncomfortable. Ok? In the meantime DO NOT MESSAGE HIM AGAIN until we get this sorted out otherwise you'll look like a stalker and by your own admission you'll "feel stupid" if he doesn't reply. Not kidding! Understand?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Go about your business for now. No offense but he's not your boyfriend and you have never even met in person. If he hasn't heard from you in a while then he may decide to hit you up and then it's up to you whether to respond or not. But I would just make other friends and not worry for a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Move on! You're investing to much emotion in this when it's simply been conversation. Don't waste your time if he can't reply to a simple message when he's always replied before, obviously something has changed and if he doesn't have the decency to tell you what that is he isn't worth your time. But that's just my opinion.
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