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writes: Hi! I want to have a boyfriend but why I can't fall in love. How to fall in love with a person? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): It's called falling in love because you don't mean to, you just do. Try meeting a lot of new people, and mingle as much as possible. But you can't force yourself. (:
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reader, person12345 +, writes (20 June 2010):
How would you know you can't fall in love if you don't have a boyfriend/partner? It takes months to TRULY fall in love (and not just be infatuated).
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reader, TailsYouLose +, writes (20 June 2010):
Well you don't have to fall in love to be seeing someone... usually it works the other way around, actually. Typically, you have to really get to know someone before falling in love with them. I've only really loved two of my boyfriends, and those were the two I stayed with the longest and spent the most time with. I think that's probably why there are so many stories of people falling in love with their friends, you know?
Just try to find someone you have a lot in common with and see if they'd be interested in going on a date. If you guys get along, the love will come later.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 June 2010):
You just have to get out there and meet men. There is no manual to falling in love. It just happens when you meet someone and get to know them. If you want a boyfriend, you need to be out there meeting men.
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