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writes:hey my problem is i like my friend and i told him that i liked him alot and we just stayed friends but a few months later he said he would go out with me only if i send him dirty pictures of me and i don't want to but i really like him and i don't want to lose him plzzzzzz help plz Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok
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reader, LuvDrunk  +, writes (20 June 2010):
Don't do it! It will come back to hurt you! If he really liked you then he wouldnt want you to send them. My advice is DO NOT SEND THEM!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): You need to loose this pig of a boy.
At your age, if he get caught with photos of you nude it could easily be illegal and declared child pornography. This is nothing to be taken lightly, BUT more importantly you need to wake up and re-read your own email to see what he's trying to do to you:
1. I like my friend a lot and told him so
2. He didn't seem to have the same feelings, so we remained freinds.
3. Months later he came back (knowing I still like him) and asked me to give him "dirty" photos of myself.
4. I don't want to ruin a possibility of a relationship.
When you read it back I hope that you see how he's trying to exploit you into doing something that you do NOT want to do.
This is a very dangerous personality (him) and can be for you to. You need to do what ever you can to get away from this guy and NOT get into relationships where a guy is going to force you to do things. This is how women get into seriously bad relationships, get beaten (but LOVE the guy and stick around) and sometimes die as a result.
If he's doing this NOW, image in 4, 6 of 8 weeks, after he's emailed the photos to 20 or 30 people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): He doesn't respect you at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): You're young. Don't do it. If you do, you might never live it down.
EVERYONE will see these picture and not just everyone in your school, but probably everyone that uses the internet will, too.
He's not your boyfriend, hon. How can you lose something you don't even have?
If he really was interested in you, the person you are, he would ask you out to see a movie or just hang out. He wouldn't demand dirty pictures of you just so that he can "honor" you with his time.
He's a loser, sweetie. Don't do it to yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): Please, please, please do not send him pictures of you.
1. You don't want to so you shouldn't do it.
2. Once he has them you won't be able to control what he does with them.
If you do send him pictures then he can still decide not to go out with you and it shouldn't be like this anyway. He doesn't sound like a friend and you won't be losing anything by not giving him what he wants. Trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): If he wants dirty pictures of you even though you aren't even his girlfriend, chances are that he doesn't have a good personality. Besides, you're underage and you could get arrested for child pornography.
Keep away from him.
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