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writes:Help! I love my boyfriend very much and I love being intimate with him. There is, however, a hitch in the get-along. It really turns him on when I swallow, but honestly, I very much so don't like the taste. I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I'd like to be able to get myself to, but a gag-reflex combined with the not-so-great taste has me thinking twice. Is there anything I can do so it's easier for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Maybe the both of you should try showering together as part of your foreplay.. this should eliminate some taste/smell concerns.
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reader, george3 +, writes (20 June 2010):
 you can remove his manhood from your mouth at the time of explosion.just put the load on your breast or any where you point him and watch. hell still enjoy the action. he needs to respect you more and the swallow, though.one way to break him would be fill your mouth and then give him a french kiss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): I've recently had the same problem and the best thing to do is to just talk to him. But please try to be gentle, and tell him how much you enjoy it. My current boyfriend has some kind of crazy kindness and understanding going on, but some guys may feel like there's something wrong with them...silly fragile egos.
As the post above says, diet can effect the taste. I've heard many different foods that are supposed to help, including some kinds of juice and Sunny D.
Another thing that you could try is that if you can get past the gag reflex (mine decreased over a bit of time and practice) he could come farther back in your mouth/throat and you may not taste it or just taste it a little.
Or, if you are really just uncomfortable with it, don't feel like you have to do it. YOUR feelings are the most important. If he respects them then good for you, he's a great guy, but if he doesn't then maybe you would be better off with somebody else. Again, communication is key to a healthy relationship.
Good luck! =]
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reader, Spades  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 I agree with busy04!
This actually does work. Try getting him to eat a few fruits like apples, peaches, etc. This helps to improve the taste.
You might also consider using some sort of flavoured lubricant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): Well, the same thing happened to me and for a while I did it and got it over with just so he liked it but now what I do is I'll say put it here and pick another spot on your body like chest stomach ect... and he seems to just go along with it. Good luck :)
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reader, busy04 +, writes (20 June 2010):
 Hi :)
A lot of times, the mans diet can have a huge affect in how he tastes. So maybe you should try to get your boyfriend to "sweeten" up a little before sex (especially when you know you're going do it). Or use some things (food wise) while you're actually doing the oral act, so when it's time to swallow it, it won't be so nasty. I'm trying not to give too many details here, but you can inbox me :)
And if that still doesn't change things for you, then the easiest thing would be to not do it.
If you really don't like it, then leave it alone. Talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. I's good that you want to please him, don't want to hurt his feelings but your feelings have to be considered also, after all it's your mouth.
Good luck to ya!
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