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writes:I am 21. My husband is 23 we been married for 3 yrs... But it seems like we have had more fights and arguments then laughs together... We are constantly arguing... It is literally evry other day if not daily... I luv him w all my heart. We have 2 kids 2gether. We are complete opposites... He likes to drink go out... Makes beats... And as for me i lik da complete opposite.. He has have a abusive past with me..verbal and physical.. I want to be with him... But then again i dont cause i know i can be alot happier alone.. And be able to focus on my life more. Plz help me...im so confused..should i stay.. Should i go? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): No problem. If you do decide to leave, I hope the info on how to leave safely helps. Like busy04 has said, you know what is best for you. Be well :)
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reader, busy04 +, writes (20 June 2010):
 Glad we could help! :)
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reader, itzm3617 +, writes (20 June 2010):
itzm3617 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both so much for the advice.it helped alot.
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reader, busy04 +, writes (20 June 2010):
If you know that your real happiness & focus can come from being away from him. Then you already know what you need to do...leave. Don't be confused about your safety, don't be confused about your peace of mind & having the opportunity to better yourself. It's okay to leave, you're young & your life is just beginning, don't be held down. Move forward.
Abuse of any kind is not a relationship, and it shouldn't be overlooked. Do better for yourself, your children & leave.
I'll keep you in my prayers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): Arguing and being different is one thing, verbal and physical abuse is another. It's hard to tell from your post if the abuse is ongoing but if it is and you are really considering divorce you might need some outside help in understanding what is going on and what you want to do. Try reading a book called Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds Of Angry and Controlling Men, it could help you with your decision.
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