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Could he be sleeping with someone else?

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Question - (20 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My BF and I have been seeing each other for a year. We live quite far apart so only get together most weekends. when we started seeing each other, we both went for an STD check up and got the all clear.

Recently I had an unrelated problem with my IUD and ended up in A and E having it removed. During that process, they tested me again for all sorts of infections and I was given a clean bill of health.

Three weeks after that my BF thought that he had a urinary infection and went to a clinic to get tested. He then told me that he got another STD test (which incidentally came back clear) but alarm bells have been raised as to why he felt the need to have another check up when I am clear and supposedly the only person he is sleeping with! Should I be concerned or would they check him for that as a matter of course?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010):

Thanks for that answer Caringguy. You are right - there was no need for him to tell me that at all because it did make me suspicious and start asking him questions.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2010):

It sounds like he had to have an STD check to rule anything else out. I would have thought that if he had cheated, he would have said nothing. As it is there just isn't any proof at all that he's cheating.

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