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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm not sure what to think of this guy, or what to do about it. He used to be my uncle's best friend, but they dont keep in touch now. This guy is only 11 years older than me. He first met me when i was 14, at my uncle's wedding. He said he liked me then, which i didnt like at the time ,as i knew he was too old for me then. We ddint have any contact at all until a few years ago, as he and my uncle got in touch again, and i moved to the hometown that he and my uncle lived in. Beofre that i lived in another town nearby. This guy kept saying that the wanted to marry me and take me on holiday with him when we met up again, and we hadnt even dated !. He has texted me a lot saying he wants to be with me, but of course, i am wary. I dont think its as creepy if he does still like me now, as obviously, we are both adults, but his behaviour doesnt make sense to me. We have hung out, but not actually dated. I havent seen him for a long while now, and sometimes he has said " why cant we be together like we were before " , by together, he means as a boyfriend and girlfriend, but we never have been, so that seems delusional to me ! . I have said that i like him, which i do in a way, but his behaviour is confusing. I recently found him on facebook. he put that he was looking for dating and a relationship, as well as friendship, and he was sending comments to lots of different women saying things like " i like you babes " and " i hope you choose me as your boyfriend " e.t.c . I told him that i didnt think it wa a good idea that we go out with each other because he doesnt seem trustworthy, and he said if he was in a relationship with me, he wouldnt talk to the other women on facebook, and he would even delete his facebook page altogether if he was with me ! . and he said he doesnt go with other women when he is in a relationship. he also sent me a friend request , but i havent accepted it yet. to be honest, i'm worried incase he leaves any comments on my page, as everyone will see them. i just dont know what he would put. he always says how he has liked me for the last twelve years. do you think he is obsessed, or desperate, or what ??.Can anyone make any sense out of this ?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): He seems like a right weirdo, mate why are you even considering him?!
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 This guy is bad news. No more, no less. Cut him out of your life forever.
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