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female
age
26-29,
*mmaVictoriaaa
writes:well, lately i have had a big boy crisis. 2 weeks ago today this guy who i knew, had asked me out again and i was going to meet up with him that day, when we met up he kissed me but then when i got home he rang me up and dumped me again. i didnt eat for about 4 days, just living on mints and water. i then began to eat when i realised he wasnt worth anything. he then started to play me up again and flirting with me and out the blue said oh i love my new girlfriend as if trying to make me feel hurt. i blocked him and didnt answer any of his texts for a couple of days. even now it is short conversation but yesterday it all became a little bit more complex. lately my so-called friends said i was a 'slut' because i know loads of guys and i talk to them all the time. i know im not but they keep saying it, and someone who i know from the sport i go to watch facebook messaged me saying whats wrong. the conversation slowly developed and he said "i bet you could any guy you wanted babe, your gorgeous xxxxx' then it went on from there, and now i am beginning to think that im easy because he loves me and wants to get with me, even though he is 3-4 years older than me. I have no idea what to do, because my ex is playing up and this new guy wants to have sex with me and im just clueless what to do :( :(
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reader, ctds001 +, writes (21 June 2010):
Hey Honey,
You are not a Slut but be careful of the vibe you give out to people.
It is fine to have guy friends but just don't use them for flirting to get an ego boost.
As for the older guy, he does not love you, he just says this to make you feel good. What fanastic actions has he done to show you this - taken you for nice meals? Romantic days out with no pressure for sex. Being there for you constantly when you are down and being a true freind?
Only give yourself to someone who shows you they love you, over a long period of time.
Keep us updated.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): You ant rely on a 15 year old boy to be reliable and not just think in the now. Don't sleep with the older guy I can guarentee you your going to get used.
Not meant in a rude way but the best thing you could do is find yourself some friends who you can rely on. Your only young once and you'll miss these years when they're gone.
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