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writes:I find my one of my best friends very attractive, and all of my friends are very touchy so i normally dont think to deep into things when he is being sexual towards me. But today we were coming back from a vacation with our friends and when everyone else was sleeping he leaned on me and started stroking my leg, every time getting a little bit closer until he was right outside of my underwear. I was getting very turned on and i wanted him to keep going but i knew that wouldn't happen. But i dont know if what was going through my head at the time was also going through his head. Help? We are both 16 and i'm not a virgin, but he is. After the ride he was super nice.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 Trust me, it was going through his head too. No guy touches a girl like that unless it's more than friendship. Sounds to me that in this guy's case, it's not a bad thing for you!
You are the one with the experience. If you're interested in him, why not tell him? Sounds like he's shy and nervous to make a real first move, so he walked as close to the "line" as possible in case you were to reject him.
Just talk to him. Tell him that you totally don't want to ruin your friendship, but you're interested in him as more than a friend, and it seemed to you that he felt the same way on the way home from vacation.
Good luck!
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reader, QZ +, writes (20 June 2010):
 Ask yourself a few questions: Is this friend normally very flirtatious? Is this friend considered a tease by your other friends? Has he done anything else to suggest that he might like you?
If the answer is yes to the first two questions, I'm not quite sure that he likes you in the sense that he wants to date you (although he might find you attractive). If the answer is yes to the last question (meaning he's done other things to suggest that he likes you), then I think perhaps he does. But it's very hard to tell from only one instance, so my advice would be to keep your eyes peeled. (:
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