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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:What's with texting?I met this guy couple months ago.He is a little younger than me. He started texting me few days after we met, first as friends and then flirty messages all the time.He is still in college, works as valet during summer. He started texting me for 3-4 hours every day when he works. I assume he is bored out of his mind.First it was fun. we desided to meet, but he wanted to meet so late at night like after 12, that i couldn't stay up and went to sleep.it's been a month since we started texting each other every day. We never met, but talk about it all the time. he texted me once at 2 a.m., and i told him never do it again, as we all know what those late textings mean. He stoped.Then yesterday he texted me again at 3 a.m., when i was asleep. I think i am not going to respond anymore. First, it's get very boring. There is no real converstaion goes on, only separate frases. Second we never meet, what is the point of all these texting?Makes no sense to me, why he texts without actually meeting me
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Can you say booty call?....
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): thank you guys and girls for answering. If he wants just to sleep with me, we should at least meet.lol.I don 't think he is shy. he is very cute, tall, built well, i don't think he has problems w/finding a girl.he actually sounds very confident.if he is not that into me, why all these texting? i never text him first, he always initiates every day.May be i want just to sleep with him also, i don't know and have no way of knowing as we never see each other.Well, it's all very strange. no action, just meaningless texting. is this how guys communicate now? I will withhold answering him right away or at all, see what happens. i told him from the very beginning why doesn't he call me, he said he likes texting.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): I had exactly the same problem.
He is most likely to be very shy, he probably feels more confident chatting and flirting to you through text.
Be flattered that he is texting you! He has probably used a lot of courage to keep your relationship going.
What I did, was secretly make sure I was where he was going to be and launched a massive bear hug! This made him laugh and took out all awkwardness and he wasn't nervous because it was a surprise!
Good luck and enjoy :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): Change your phone number, this guy is a waste of your time and he has no respect for you or possibly any woman. His texts are a very low effort form of keeping you in his "little black book". He is showing you through his behavior of late nite texting, not meeting you or asking you out that he is simply not into you unless you are up for a meaaningless hook up or booty call.
You can do better, tell him to never contact you again, send a text then block his number on your phone if you can.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (20 June 2010):
He just wants to sleep with you. Dont txt him no more
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