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female
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anonymous
writes:Ok so I ask that you don't judge or write mean things because I already feel terrible about this.My best guy friend (i'll call him Brandon), he's practically my brother, started going out with one of my good girl friends (i'll call her jenny) and they were happy. Then he started lying about texting this girl that he used to like (Rachel) so Jenny got mad. Now is the part that is my fault. Me and my best friend Rachel started egging on Jenny and getting her all upset about this stupid text. Jenny didn't know me and Rachel were together becuz this was all done over texting. So me and Rachel were doing this jst for fun and we didn't really support them going out for various reasons. Anyways, so finally Jenny asked me, Rachel, and one other girl if she should break up with him and Rachel seid yes, i seid something dramatic, and the other girl seid to break up. So they did.Now Brandon is still my best guy friend and we tell each other that we love each other, like bros and sisters, but now it makes me feel terrible when he tells me he loves me because i know that he would hate me if he knew that i helped break him and Jenny up. It was extremely stupid and i didn't expect Jenny to break up with him and now i feel that it is partly my fault. What do I do?(all names were made up) ask questions if u dont follow, i'll answer them...i jst want to know wat to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): I'm sorry. It seems like your making too big of a deal out of it. If Brandon was as close with you a you say he is, he would forgive you for breaking him and jenny up. I know that you don't want to hear it, but this situation seems very childish. Just let time heal your guilt, and if you can, build up the courage to tell Brandon. Like I said, if you guys are really that close he would understand. Hope it helps!
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