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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey i need to know if my ex still loves me. because today we were taking on facebook and she is coming up to visit her parents because she lives down south. and she wants to meet up with me and she also said to me it was a shame i left you. she even wants to see my parents and that she cant wait. she already has a boyfriend and ive already got a girlfriend. but i need to know if she still loves me because of her saying it was a shame she dumped me and what does she mean by that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): Well, it sounds like she is communicating to you that she regrets leaving you! Where this will translate into your relationship getting back together is another question, but it is a definite possibility.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): Put yourself in her shoes, if you said that to someone what would it mean? And there's your answer.
For instance, if I said that to someone, it would mean exactly that. It would mean I was thinking about him, reminiscing, dreaming, wondering. I don't know if it means she "loves" you per se, but you definitely preoccupy her thoughts quite a bit. For sure it means she's thinking of you.
If she LOVED you, she would have told you AND tried to get back with you. That's love. When you LOVE someone you just want to be with them, can't imagine your life without him.
So like I said, I don't know about love, but she's definitely thinking about you...
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 Your ex is feeling nostalgic. I don't know if she "loves" you, but she still has feelings for you.
The question is - do you love your current girlfriend? Think about it this way - your ex dumped you and put you through pain. Can you put your current girlfriend through that?
There was a reason why your ex dumped you. How do you think her current boyfriend would feel if word got to him that his girlfriend feels that way about you?
I would leave the past in the past. How would your current girlfriend feel if SHE knew your ex and you were still friends on Facebook and that she was wanting to see your parents??? That crosses the line, actually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): Ask her! Ideally in person when she visits.
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