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writes:I keep snapping at my friend every time he mentions his girlfriend to me. I have feelings for him, so obviously my reason for snapping is because I am a bit jealous. But when I snap at him, I sometimes really hurt him or make him mad. I need to stop. I hate making him upset because I really love him and want him to be happy. How can I control my jealousy? I know I'm a good friend to him and he really cares about me and he'll always forgive me, but it still doesn't give me a right. Please help.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 June 2010):
 I agree, I think you need to tell him or start actively thinking while talking and make sure you don't snap. If you don't snap, though, I guess that instead you'll withdraw - so either tell him or give him some space so you can start to get over him.
Good luck, sweetness. I'm sure he's not trying to hurt you, and I'm sure he doesn't want to continue to do so.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 You need to tell your friend how you feel. Otherwise you may regret nevertelling him. Even if you lose him at least you know. If you win then good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): its normal to feel that way considering your situation.maybe you should tell him how you feel about him.that way,even if he doesnt feel the same way for you,he will stop talking to you about his girlfriend coz he'l not wanna hurt you.
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