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writes:When i broke up with my boyfriend at the end of last year i started meeting up with this boy who had also just got out of a long term relationship.. at first we used to go out for drinks etc then we eventually slept together and i said how i was up for something that wasn't that serious so we've been seeing each other casually ever since.We see each other out in town a lot and he always invites me round his house when all his mates are there and introduces me to everyone and stuff, he is also really cuddly and touchy with me in front of them and when we sleep together he does things like hold my hand and put his forehead against mine.. my problem is i'm actually starting to like him quite a lot and i'm wondering if he could actually like me and is going along with the sex buddy situation because i said that's what i wanted. Or do you just think he is using me?We talk a lot (not just of a sexual nature) and he always does nice gestures like paying for my taxis and stuff but if we see each other we do usually just have sex at some point even if its after hanging around with his friends. Up until now i made it really clear to him that i only wanted a sexual relationship but now i'm starting to feel more..what do you think?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 June 2010):
I think the only way for you to find out is to talk to him. And you need to do it soon while your feelings aren't so strong. He could be interested, but this could just be a FWB situation. You need to talk to him. If he is just in it for the sex, then end it and move on quickly so you don't get too hurt.
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reader, ForgottenSoul  +, writes (20 June 2010):
Well, from the things you have said it does in fact sound as if he does like you in a romantic way and not just in a friend way. HOWEVER, the only way to find out is to ask. It is not difficult, all you have to do is tell him that you are starting to develop feelings for him and ask him what he feels. You must remember that the situation that you will be happiest in, (i.e. being with him), is only obtainable by risking your current situation. Weigh up whether you feel it is worth it, which I feel it sounds like it is :-)
But again I say, it does sound like he likes you, quite a lot. But hey, either keep wondering and hoping he will act first, or take a risk and utter a very simple question :-)
All the best and good luck
Jack
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