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female
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41-50,
*ontoyarae
writes:My boyfriend broke up with a couple of days ago stating that he could not do this anymore because it was not fair to me that he was so busy and never had time for me. I told him that I understood that he is under a lot of stress right now but that I was here to support him and help him through. I asked him how he felt in his heart about me and he said that I was Amazing, that he cares about me and that I am important and this is why he is doing this right now, because I am important and I don't deserve this kind of treatment. I will be the first to admit he is going through a lot with work, his health, and moving but I told him I was willing to give him the space and time he needed. I even asked him if we could just go on hold until he got through his stuff but again he said it wasn't fair to me or to him. Last I asked if it we could think of a possible future or if he wanted a clean break right now. He said he thought a clean break would be best. so I told him to have a good life got out of the car and watched him drive away. I really thought he was the one and I am so hurt right now. I have several question. Why would he want a clean break if he cares about me and thinks I am amazing? When/or is it ever appropriate to try to contact him even if just to say I hope all is going well and I hope he is taking care of himself. Do you think when he is over this stressful period he will comeback, or is it more likely that once brokeup even for this reason that men tend to just move on? We had no problems in our relationship that I was aware of, and he didn't mention anything when we broke up. He said that it is all his fault. Yes I wan't to get back together with him but I also respect that he is going through a difficult period in his life. Help I am so confused and broken hearted
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): he gave you the ussual lines just to break up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2010): He's most likely lying to you because he thinks he is sparing your feelings and avoiding a big confrontation.
My bet is he met someone else...why he doesn't have "time" for you.
Take this break up for what it is, he no longer wants to be with you...let the jerk fly away and move on, darling.
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