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*laMich88
writes:my boyfriend and I have ben together for almost 4 years and we def. Have our ups and downs just like every other relationship and I was wondering when the wedding bells should riing? I love him and anytime I bring up Marriage and Babies he gets freaked out and doesn't want to talk about it. It just be nice to know that were not gonna be like my sister and her last bf....they were togther for 7 years and broke it off cuz he didn't wanna marry her. I don't want to be togther for another 4 years and the same thing happen to us. I would marry him and I would love to his have babies one day. I'm just scared that its gonna be too late when he figures out he doesn't wanna marry me. I don't push it and I rarely talk about it. I feel that I have already committed myself 110% to this relationship because I moved 800 miles away from home to be with him and start a life. I've already missed out on everything in my families lives and I don't wanna miss another 4 years if we end up brakin up. My question is, how do I know if he is "The One"?
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reader, AlaMich88 +, writes (27 January 2010):
AlaMich88 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, you see, "caringGuy" my boyfriend was engaged before me. He proposed to his ex gf and she ended up cheating on him and ruined it so they broke up. They were only togther for about a year or so and We have now been together for almost 4 years! So why hasent he popped he Q for me?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 January 2010):
If he's freaking out, he's not ready. If he's not ready and you are, then he's not the one.
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