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My boyfriend wont believe he is my first

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Question - (27 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone!i hope somebody could help me with this problem.I ve never had any man in my life,but my first boyfriend said to me that i was not a virgin.and that hurt me so much because i thought he was my only one.and every time i tell him that he is my only one,he got hungry but i cant stop saying that cause i know he is.what do you think is the best way for me to get out of that idea

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2010):

This guy is pathetic. He's not worth your time. Why is it all so important you're his first? He's insulting you. Don't allow him to do it and get rid of him.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (27 January 2010):

Honeygirl agony auntThis guy obviously doesnt trust your word, so red flags here.....

If he cannot believe your word or trust what you say, should you really persue a relationship with him?? I suspect things will only get worse in the future where he will dispute everything you say...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010):

screw him, tell him that your NEXT boy friend will be told "I've only had sex with one guy before you, he didn't believe me and now I'm with you"...

This guy is immature... you don't have to PROVE anything. Either he trusts you or he doesn't. SO far, he's said your a lair and a slut... what else are you waiting to hear?

Cut your loses and tell this looser to start walking...

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (27 January 2010):

offer to take a lie detector test or a doctors exam

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