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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:please help what do you guys think of the following situation:- I have known my 'friend' for the past 12 months, he stays at my house, has left some of his belongings also, we enjoy each others company, can talk openly and honestly, we kiss, hold hands and cuddle up on the sofa and in bed, have sex, we have had days out, and evenings in with a bottle of wine and dvds, he says i drive him crazy when he thinks about me, rings and texts throughout the day even though he will see me later, tells me he has feelings for me. i have jokingly said to him careful now this seems too much like a relationship and he said no it isn't your just a really great friend.... he still loves and wants his ex of 20 months back, she however doesn't want him...... what do you guys think???
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reader, checkout chick  +, writes (29 January 2010):
thanks for your comments, certainly given me some things to think about xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 January 2010):
It sounds to me like you're a FWB. He's keen do have sex with you, spend time with you, but not truly commit to you as he still feels for his ex. So you need to really think about what it is you want from your life, because it's not sounding like he wants to commit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): I think he has you where he wants you.
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reader, Lyra Anna  +, writes (27 January 2010):
 He doesnt know what he wants and in order to that conclusion, you should find real "relationship" guy, not just a "good" friend. I have had same situation about one year ago and it was really hard to move on cause I thought that he was the one for me. (We have hang out, agree in lots of things, making a jokes, talking about future,life...) but he also didnt know what does he wants from me. He was always telling me how special I am, how he had never fell something like that in a conversation with other girls, he was saying all the time that I was the one he was looking for till now. And I started to believe. Despite that, it didnt end up well cause he few times sleep with hes ex girlS so I decide that is time to find someone else.
From your point of view it seems horrible to let him go, but believe me, being just friends is better then messing relationship.
It is not worth it.
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