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anonymous
writes: I been marrid 4 3yrs. And I really wanna spice up the bed room,I need sum suggestion,how can I turn him and want me BADLY besides oral,I always wantd to dance 4 him but I am horrible. He is not in to langurie. Please help me.open to new things Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (28 January 2010):
If you eliminate mutual oral stimulation, and satisfaction, then you have eliminated a good 50 percent of the possibilities for spicing up a lifetime of sexual excitement and the delicious pleasures of the experiences. All that remains is creative foreplay, a nice selection of intercourse-position possibilities and some mutual masturbation.
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reader, jamielea kellow +, writes (27 January 2010):
hi, mabea if you can do some dirty talk, that might help.
Or you could watch some porn before you go to the bedroom, it might give him some ideas. hope this info helps you. xx
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reader, Silence and Sorrow +, writes (27 January 2010):
You could always try something small like a nice romantic bath to turn him on. Candles lit, lights off, soft music, no phones around to upset the mood. When you present yourself to him wear some nice rope or something else that you don't mind getting wet. If you go with rope, you can use it to "pull" him to the bathroom. (Note: make sure the bathroom is clean) When you both are in the bath wash him slowly. Take your time and have fun. Whisper loving words into his ear. Kiss along his back and neck. When you are finished with the bath, help him dry off. Then keep to the mood and lead him to the bedroom. If you keep candles there too it helps keep the mood soft.
I wish you luck.
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