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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:im afraid i will never love again, truly love again. im over my ex, hes a completely different person than what he was before so all i have left is just the illusion of what was. ive been dating this guy for about 6 months roughly but weve been talking for about a year . he told me he was falling in love with me but i think i just like him and am sometimes a little infatuated, but its not true love. and btw were mainly long distance, i dont really know how to feel or what to even say to him. i wish i could feel all these wonderful things but he doesnt know that everyday i either cry or just feel like i cant do it. i put a lot of effort into making it into somethign that im afraid isnt meant to be. i cannot force love right? help please =)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 January 2010):
No, you can't force love. I suspect that though you're over your ex, you're not over the breakup and you're worried you won't meet 'the one'. I think this might be the time to just focus on yourself. You're only young, so maybe instead of worrying about a relationship at the moment, you'd be better just finding yourself. Once you're happy for yourself and you're living your own life, you'll be able to find the right guy for you.
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