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Why do I give guys my number even although I KNOW I'm not interested???

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Question - (27 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why do i do this? i am not a flirt im just super friendly always smiling and laughing. now when i meet a guy for the first time maybe over three times i have given out my number even though i knew i wasnt gonna do anything or i was looking for anything serious with these men. Now they would text me like the day after and i would tell them i have no interest in them other than being friends. is there something wrong with me doing that...? and even after i say that many of them do continue the conversations and the ones that dont doesnt really bother me. any insight or clues to know why i do that?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2010):

Maybe you do it because you find the attention flattering. How is your esteem, and self confidence when it comes to how you feel about yourself? This might be something you do to know there are guys out there who like you.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (27 January 2010):

person12345 agony auntBecause it's flattering and makes you feel attractive. It does make you a bit of a tease, but it IS quite flattering to feel "pursued."

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