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writes:Ok, so there's this guy who is funny, good looking, loud and just really great. Anyway, he goes to my college and for some weird reason I really like him. I talk to him when I see him and he calls me names as a joke which I love. But I can't tell him I like him because I'm not sure he feels the same way back and it would make things awkward. I usually see him at lunchtime and caught him looking at me today. I felt shy as I was eating in front of him lol. I really want to flirt with him so maybe he might feel something and like me back but I get too shy. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): thanks ppl (by the way I'm the girl who asked the question), I have looked up 'how to flirt' on the internet which sounds desperate lol. To be honest, I think I'm just bored which is why I'm flirting with him because I've fallen for him in like 2 weeks which must be impossible right? I'm not sure whether it's just a bit of fun or whether I really like him. I'm confused.
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reader, SavvySavannah456  +, writes (28 January 2010):
 Whenever I'm shy around someone I play a game with them (only play if a their a little perverted and can take a joke) With my every new Best-Guy-Friend I play this and it gets us closer than you would imagine :)
Ok so the object of the game is to ask another player a question that they would NOT want to answer (e.i are you a virgin? Who do you love the most in your life? ect.)
If they refuse to answer the question, then they lose, and the game is ended (if you have 2 players, if more, than you play until one person is left) once you get used to asking awkward questions it gets really fun. And it's much funner than it sounds.
Good luck :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 January 2010):
Smile at him, look at him, be open. If you're really shy, try just getting to know him a bit more by asking him what he likes and such. The more comfortable you feel in getting to know him, the better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): If you're shy then the best way to flirt is through body language. So just smile at him slowly, use eye contact, use open body language i.e. don't cross your arms, and fiddle with your hair, etc. Look out for his body language too as he might be giving away how he feels like that. So watch for feet pointed at you, staring and mirroring body language. There's loads of little things you can do and to watch out for so I suggest you look it up for more detail.
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