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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:okay, so last Saturday night I went to a dance with my best friend. At the dance she introduced me to a bunch of her guy friends. and eventually one of her guy friends introduced me to one of his (lets call him Max).After a while 'Max' and I really hit it off and got talking, ect. A slow song came on and he asked me to dance (Which, no matter to my nervousness, I said yes) so we went he put his hands on my hips I put my hands on his shoulders and we danced. During the dance which wasn't very 'into it' if I may say, we were talking to two of my friends who were dancing next to me. One of them in a teasing voice said 'hey, If you kiss 'Max' I'll kiss 'Jake' So...(this surprised myself, not to mention 'Max') I planted a quick kiss on his lips. (my best friend who was distracted, didn't see so she got mad and made us do it again ;) ) All of these were quick 'Peck-On-The-Lips' kisses. Nothing big.closely following the end of the dance I had to leave because I was being picked up from the dance. I gave him a hug goodbye and left with my friends. (We couldn't exchange numbers because my phone was broken, he gave it to my best friend who I could talk to him through).A day later he asked me out :) I said yes.It is now Wednesday and Friday we are supposed to go see a movie together with my best friend and her date. (My parents will get suspicious if I go alone, otherwise I would. My mom doesn't want me dating just yet. I'm 13)I have been frantically looking up 'kissing tips' and many other things like flirting, because I have never actually open-mouth kissed a boy. My other experiences with boyfriends have been horrible ones. I only went out with them because I felt drowned in peer pressure of people telling me to 'say yes!' to them asking me to go out.I don't know anything about it, I think I might have flirted pretty well at the dance...but I'm not sure.so my basic question is:1.What's the line between acting slutty and being sexy/just flirting with your boyfriend, for a first movie date in the mall? (My friend says he's going to kiss me, because he told her).2. What are good ways to flirt? How do I handle the date and act?3. can you explain how to open-mouth-kiss in detail so I'm not (as) nervous?4.How do I react to things he does? (e.i put his arm around me...kiss me softly...complement me or something.5.Lips/breath...Is lip gloss too gooey?(do I chew gum before the movie?) What do I wear as or something?6.my phone isn't working, he doesn't have a facebook/e-mail, and he doesn't go to my school...how are more ways we could communicate?7.Slow dancing tips8.What can go WRONG during the date that I should avoid?9.Clothes, What should I wear?10. what type of movie is preferable for a makeout session? I have a good feeling we will. :)12. Lots of guys say they like the girls to make the first move...Do I make it? or should I just let him do it this time?13.ANY advice period!!!!Thank you...I know that's a LOT of questions... Even if you only answer one it would make me less nervous! :)12. Lots of guys say they like the girls to make the first move...Do I make it? or should I just let him do it this time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much! :DDD
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