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writes:im 17 and i have a gf but its hard to make her talk to me and she wont kiss me and wont say why, recenly ive been finding her friend very attractive.her and her freind often fall out about thing that each other has done. its usually my gf whos dont something stupid like tryed to break up other relationships. i always stand by her but its getting hard. she said yesterday that she belived some random person over me. ive never do anything to hurt her in any way and its getting hard to keep it going.i do still like her tho but i dont think it has a future.ive known her freind 14 years and a few weeks ago she said she would like to date me but i was going out with my gf. but no things with my gf are going badly as she wont tell me things or belive me about simple things.i dont no if having a relationship with her freind will have a future either but it might.should i try to give my relationship ago or go out with her freind? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 January 2010):
Your girlfriend seems really unstable to be honest. She won't believe you, she tries to ruin her friends; relationships and she won't kiss you. This just isn't the woman you need n your life. You'd be better off moving on from her and finding someone who actually has respect for you.
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reader, Eleanorstar  +, writes (27 January 2010):
 I think that you should warn your gf that you are not understanding why she is doing this and if she doesnt give u a reasonable answer than sadly you must leave her. If i were you though i wouldnt cause such other problems by going out with her friend as this will just make them fight.I would try finding another nice girl..Im not saying its wrong to go out with her friend but girls are very different from guys and your current gf would become very jealous of the situation..GL hope this helps
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (27 January 2010):
Your relationship is clearly not working.
She's not even willing to kiss you and clearly isn't that nice if she tries to break people up etc.
So dump her and give it some time and then ask out her friend if you still want to.
Why would you stay? You're in school, you're hardly married.
Good Luck!! xx
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