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My babysitter is a hooker!

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Question - (27 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2010)
A female Kuwait age 41-50, *iba O writes:

I have a 6 month old daughter and I recently had a babysitter who turned out to be a prostitute who was all this time sending naked pictures to men for money and on holidays she would go out to sleep with husbands who she used to work for their wives, she always tried to make problems between my and my husband and my parents by spreading rumors.. she told my mother once that she feeels pity for me because im constantly fighting with my husband and ITS IS NOT TRUE.... so after that my best friend saw her naked pictures on her babysitters and i got her mobile and saw many mens phone numbers , and the scary thing is that she was responsible for my daughter the whole time while i was at work. (she is from phillipines btw) .. Anyway whats frustrating is the my mother-in-law did not consider what i said and she took her in without taking any actions after i told her about it.. I didnt expect this from her because she is very conservative and doesnt do these things or keep people like that at her house...she is acting totallly normal about the "hooker".. what do i do im frustrated that she didnt take my word or take action and refused to see the pictures..

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A female reader, ShadowGirl United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2010):

I don't think her being a prostitute has anything to do with her babysitting as long as she is taking care of your baby and not bringing her "other work" into your house.

However, I would sit her down and tell her if she doesn't stop spreading rumours about your private life then she is losing the job as it would be so easy for you to find another babysitter.

Also, what does her being from the Phillipines have to do with anything? I was just wondering.

Anyway, good luck with this, I hope it all works out well in the end.

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010):

Hi. As long as the hooker isnt looking after your baby anymore that is the important thing. Im wondering why your mother in law took the woman in, unless the woman had nowhere else to go. If she doesnt want to believe you there isnt alot you can do. Just wait until your father in law is caught with this woman and then i expect your mother in law will do something x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2010):

I think your daughter is safe, as this woman clearly is into grown men. The problem is she is obviously trying to get to your husband. I think you need to sack her, or at least tell your husband and if need be throw the photos at your mother in law. Just get her out.

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