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writes:i tried to log onto my girlfriends hotmail and got the password wrong too many time and now she has to enter security questions and is going to know that i tried to hack her account. how can i say i did it by accident? Reply to this Question
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (27 January 2010):
 dont say anything anyone could have done from any computer all they need is her screename lol ive been there done that dont tell her let her tell you then tell her someone probably tried hacking it. it happens all the time tell her she should make a new password just to be on the safe side and then be a gentleman and offer your help coming up with a new one , trust me shell by it girls believe anything if you say it rite.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): Confess to a whole long list of stuff, including the email, and then tell her you were joking about almost all of it...
OK, that will NOT work... you need to grow up and show other people some respect.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (27 January 2010):
Admit nothing. Nowadays email accounts ask for security questions all the time. Don't say anything and if she asks either draw a blank or say that your email account asked you the same thing... If you want to hack, its better to download a keystroke spyware (many free trials on the web). Its runs on the computer undetected and records everything she types, including email password. I used to believe in privacy but when you are in love with someone they are not entitled to any. You have invested your time, love and commitment in them and you need to know if what you are buying into is real. I did this a few years ago after some dodgy phone texts and discovered my husband was having a full blown affair. If I hadn't spied on him I would still be none the wiser and committed to somebody who was not committed to me. I still have his password to this day and he has had many affairs with different women; sometimes his friends' wives but he is begging me back saying he has been alone since we broke up. He even shed tears which I would have believed if I didn't have access to the "I'm going to f... you tonight" emails to various women, some on the same day. Go for it.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 January 2010):
 If you can't be honest about this, what else are you lying about? Not really a good way to be having a relationship there...
No trust, hacking and lying... don't bode well..
M advice is to be honest. Tell her WHAT you did and WHY. though I seriously doubt you have the gonads to do so.
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reader, iamaphony +, writes (27 January 2010):
don't ever read or want to read your partners emails.
you might as well tell her now, because this relationship officially has issues. as do you. you learn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): i think there are bigger issues than getting caught and lying about it! Why on earth were you doing it in the first place? Invading her space?
Usually people invade other people's private areas because they themselves have things to hide, or they're insecure. Either way you need to do something about it. I think u shud just own up to it and never do it ever again, never do anything like this because it isn't healthy and it's obsessive.
I don't think u really deserve any advice because it's such a dodgy thing to do and u shudnt have been doing it, but i guess in a way, if u were doing it because u were insecure - we all make mistakes ONCE, twice it's just stupid.
There's no way for her to tell ur the one that did it. Play it innocent if u realllly want to get away with it.
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