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female
age
36-40,
*yperbunny
writes:Dear cupidI started seeing a guy a few weeks before I went to Thailand for three weeks.We eneded up sleeping with each other on the first night, he pushed me into it and said he wouldnt judge meand said he was looking for a gf etc so it should matter.Anyway things were great we were seeing each 2,3 times a week. I todl him I was going away for 2 weeks but ended up staying for three. He called me after two weeks and I was happy as it showed he was still interested.Anyway as soon as I got home he I calle dhim and he seemed really please tohear from me aND I went to see himWe had sex and then after that he seemed really funny, asking me how many guys have I ever slept with and that he is going for an std check up - I asked had he any symptoms and he said no, but he wanted to be sure.Then when my phone rang he asked me suspiciously who it was. He said he was gonna be busy over the weekend but he's call me in the week.. it's wenesday today and I havent heard from him...:S What do you think of this situation.. I dont want to call him, I dont know what Ive done wrong and why things have chnaged??xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 January 2010):
Whoa! Back the hell away from this guy. Either he's used you and was looking for a way out, or he is the original nightmare and is a total mess. That said, if he's talking about STD's, he has something to worry about. And if you've had sex, it's really important you get tested in case he's given something to you. You didn't do anything wrong at all, but you need to get yourself tested for STD's, and move on from this guy as quickly as possible. Seems to me like he's just used you.
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