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writes: My girlfriends sister and I have had a "relationship" for a couple of weeks now. My relationship with GF has been shaky lately and I am really attracted to her sister, who has already said she loves me and would give up everything for me. Now my GF has checked my phone records and had her sister's husband check hers. Now I don't hear from her sister...2 days ago, she wanted to pick me up at 2 AM and run away, now nothing. Any advice/experience would be appreciated. I don't want to hurt anybody, yet I want to do something for me for once. Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): you are having a "relationship" with your bf's sister = meaning you have been having sex with another mans wife as well. "I don't want to hurt anybody, ..." too late. you have hurt your gf, your lovers hb and those kids. how can you look at yourself and act like everything is normal. you have betrayed your gf and you actually do not deserve her.
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reader, jitterbug +, writes (9 February 2010):
 Think hard........
Could you ever really trust anyone capable of betraying their own flesh and blood?
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (29 January 2010):
 If the sister's husband found out about your relationship and suddenly she's not speaking to you, it's because she's spending her time begging her husband not to throw her out on her ass. She was never in love with you, especially after a couple of weeks. She was playing you. Sorry.
If you want to do something for you for once, I suggest you take Strontiumdog's advice and break up with your girlfriend (your relationship is shaky anyway).Get away from this whole mess and move on with your life.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 January 2010):
Stick with your girlfriend. Remember the saying 'The grass is greener'. What happens when it all goes wrong and you realize you have nothing? And that will happen. Just because things between you and your girlfriend are a rocky doesn't mean they can't be fixed. Work with your girlfriend, leave her sister well out of it.
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