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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I need help for a situation that is driving me a bit out of my mind! There is this guy that I really really like in my class! But I haven't a clue how he feels about me as such as he acts the same way around me like everyone else we know. I mean, perhaps he is even friendlier with the other girls we know than me. He has never actually given me any indication that he may fancy me.Recently, there was a house / slumber party and he got quite drunk. He was very affectionate with me - giving me hugs, playing the guitar to me, kissing me on the forehead, holding hands, telling me I was beautiful etc. I quite liked it. The next day he returned back to his "normal" self with me. After a couple days from the party I texted him asking him about a class assignment (Honestly, it was an excuse to contact him to talk to him) He didnt reply to the text. A few days after a group of us went to the bar and eventually the group started talking about the night and laughing about the antics we all got up to at the party. When he and I, started talking about it before I could ask him further - one of my friends annoying dragged me away to talk about something else. I left soon after.Now I dont want to make it obvious to the guy that I like him but I dont mind flirting to test the water to see if he reciprocates (ie flirts back) before taking things further if that makes sense. After I left the bar, I send him a text - the drunk night in question I gave him a pressed flower. He kissed it and put it in his pocket and told me he would keep it forever. I know he should remember the flower because the morning after the party when he woke up he put his hand in his pocket and found the flower and made a comment.Anyway so I sent him a text, just saying By the way - what did you do with my flower in the end?Again he did not reply to my texts. Now I feel that sort of text was enough to instigate conversation...and if he was interested in the slightest he would have a remark about it right? But now I do not want to feel like an idiot by keep texting this guy or chasing after him. He has now ignored my two attempts at contact - I mean, if someone is genuinely interested they will reciprocate contact right? Before anyone says, he definately has credits on his phone to be able to reply. Should I just leave things here now as it is pretty clear he isnt interested in me in that way by his lack of contact? Just give it to me honestly - I just dont want to make a fool of myself (even more) Is it time to read the signs and move on? What is the best thing for me to do now?! I am somehow going out of my mind!!!
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