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writes:So my boyfriend talkedto this girl that I very much hate, he promised he would stop talking to her, but I found outhe still is talking to her thinking I don't know a thing.What is this suppose to mean?????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): So if he hated one of your male friends and told you that you weren't allowed to talk to him at all, would you stop talking to him? Ask yourself that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): If you told him you dont like her and that you dont want him talking to her and he still is that means he doesnt respect you enough to not talk to her. In most cases he is also doing other things behind your back most likely.Its good you didnt express you know anything, because the fact that you dont know AND he is talking to her on top of that is there TWO things he's doing1. Hes not even telling you hes talking to her.2. Hes talking to her when you asked him not to.I would save yourself a lot of hurt now and just end it with him he doesnt respect you already, which mean he doesnt really care. He wants the benefit of being in a relationship with you AND doing whatever he wants.You'll most likely find-that if you stick to your guns and tell him he cant do whatever he wants and have a relationship with you, he'll easily just go find another girl vulnerable enough to where he can have a relationship with them plus do whatever he wants.If you want to watch and see what happens when you repeatedly tell him no to getting back with him he very quickly just go find another relationship because he wants someone there AND wants to be able to do whatever he wants, this means-if hes said he loves you all of those things then he doesnt neccessarily love you he loves the fact that he can be with you and get away with doing other things as this is just something you found out about there are probably ALOT of other things he is doing that you dont know about.If you follow what i said you'll probably make the same observation-he'll chase after you for a while because hes so dependent on a relationship and then he'll just replace you because its not really the person or you hes in love with hes in love with being in a relationship.Dont let him fool you, hope this helps!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 January 2010):
He broke his promise. End it. If he broke this promise, what others will he break? He's not worth your time.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (27 January 2010):
It means that he doesn't respect you enough to care about what you want and he probably can't be trusted. I only say this because you asked him to do something, you trusted him to follow through like he said he would, and he still does it anyway.
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