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writes:ok so im a 20 year old dude who is in a bit of a situation with a good friend of mine.ive been best friend status with this girl since the 2nd grade and i really do love her. but we stopped talkin recently because of an arguement that occurred about our relationship. she wanted commitment from me but i wasnt sure because i knew that she still had feelings for her ex. not too long after that arguement she revealed that she was pregnant and the babie's daddy was the ex.. when i found out that happend i flipped out and we stopped talkin since. its a hard thing for me to cope with because im so close to her and her family.. her cousins are like brothers to me and her mother is like my own.. her cousins had told me that she never got back with her ex but she is lonely. i jus dont know what to do.. a part of me wants to speak to her but i still feel bitter about the whole thing. im sorry if this is a whole buncha jibberish but ive been thinkin alot about it and would like an opinion. thanks for your time and patience
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reader, kika2168  +, writes (5 December 2010):
am 22,wel am in a similar situation except that the child is two years old!wel my opinion is zat even if a girl was a b* in the past the pregnancy period really change them, it made them more mature , i think its the maternal love or something like zat.wel if she really love u i think she should be given a chance as wel as her baby!i would add zat if her ex has rejected has the baby her respect as wel as love would triple for u, i can guarantee zat!
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