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writes:Any tips on how to give a guy a good blow job? My bf and i have decided to try out oral sex...and i'm new at this so i am a bit nervous....
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reader, vickysmr  +, writes (11 December 2010):
The first thing you need to do is try to connect with that guy, try giving him head with more emotions and more passion, if you can feel him and his body on a deeper level, then the blow job itself will be a lot more enjoyable – but you may need some time and practice until you can get to that level. You need to change your attitude and the way you view blow jobs in general – stop thinking that you are giving him something – that YOU are giving him pleasure. If you really want to make it pleasureable – then you actually need to start enjoying it, genuinly enjoying it – you get to that by getting better.
Of course you’re not going to enjoy something if you suck at it – but once you get good at something, you naturally start enjoying it a lot more – and THAT is when you’ll actually get good at it.
So my advice is – fake it till you make it. Practice and get better over time. It’s an art – a learnable one. It’s not one of those “some are born with it some are not” things.
I’ll give you 2 simple but effective tips that will instantly improve your skills.
One – Put more pressure on his shaft, don’t be too soft, a lot of girls are too soft and afraid to have a tighter grip around his shaft. His shaft is the hardest and least sensitive part of his penis – but it can give him great pleasure if you stroke it hard and right – so don’t be afraid to be a bit more aggressive. A harder grip will also give him the impression that you’re not that lost and insecure – he want’s a confident girl that knows what she’s doing.
Two – Involve his balls in the game. A blow job is not just about his head and shaft – there is so much more involved. You have to give him head with everything you’ve got, combine everything you have, use tickling, sucking, licking, stroking, dirty talking and you whole body at once, not just your mouth. The art is to make the right combination at the right moments. So as I’ve said – involve his balls, either hold them or just lightly tickle them with your nails.
There is so much more you can learn about giving great head – just keep on searching and you’ll soon be the best he’ll ever have. And for more tips you can check out http://www.jacksblowjoblessons.com/
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reader, mrvhappy  +, writes (5 December 2010):
Hi,
You might wanna set some ground rules...like have a shower 1st..maybe even together. Do you want him to cum in your mouth?..if not ask him to warn you when he's about to explode.
The best thing to do whilst you suck his penis is to put your finger in his mouth and ask him to demonstrate on yr finger what he would like you to do and replicate that
Make eye contact at all times...We guys love that..lol
I'm sure the rest will come naturally (no pun intended!!)
Go and enjoy!!
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reader, Princess Aunty  +, writes (5 December 2010):
So i'll mention a bit of the things you need to do and those that you should not do. Here you go with some tips :-
1. Look into his eyes, while sucking his penis. This is the #1 piece of advice I can give. It brings you onto a new level. And men love to watch!
2. If you’re not using lubricant, make sure he’s well lubed. Make sure your tongue is really wet and lick the entire shaft of his penis.
3. To get your man excited, take his penis out of his pants or get him naked, and run your fingers very gently over the underside of his penis.
4. If he’s not totally hard, just start to lick his cock and take it gently in your mouth because just like women, some men take a little while to get excited too.
5. Breathe on his penis and blow gently with your hot breath.
6. Gently massage his balls. Don’t squeeze, the testicles are very sensitive
7. Lick his balls or try this. Put both of his balls in your mouth. Use one hand to circle the top of the sac, and gently pull it down to the bring the balls together into a neat swallow able package. (He should probably be standing up for this) Make sure you cover your teeth with your lips and use your tongue to give his balls a good lapping.
8. Don’t be afraid to use your hands on the penis too, giving good head involves using all your resources to make the experience exciting for your partner.
9. And remember, giving a blow-job is not just wrapping your mouth around the penis and moving up and down. While his penis is in your mouth, use your tongue to stimulate the head.
10. Switch between mouthing it and licking it.
11. Don’t just work the penis, it does belong to a human being. It is also important to look up and deeply kiss your man.
12. Tell him how much you love sucking his penis. Tell him how sweet he tastes. Men love women that can talk dirty.
13. Tease him by giving his penis a complete tongue bath first, until he can’t stand it anymore. Then take it into your mouth.
14. Get your man naked and kiss and lick all the areas around his penis, don’t touch it. Lick and kiss his inner thighs. Then lick and kiss his balls.
By that time he should be dripping wet, then start to go down on him.
15. Simulate actual intercourse, lubricate his cock thoroughly, then with your hands slowly jerk him off but when your hand reaches the bottom of the shaft, take it into your mouth, but cover your teeth with your lips and keep the opening firm, so it feels like his penis is entering a tight vagina.
16. Besides mouthing the penis, suck it. Deep sucks and quick little teasing ones, feel great too.
17. While giving head rub the area, just behind his balls. Even though it’s close to his anus, it does give a good sensation.
18. If you’re jerking your man off too, don’t just pull on his penis like you’re milking a cow. As you run your hands up and down his penis, squeeze it a little, just jerk the head a little. Be sensual about it, don’t milk a cow.
NOW I HOPE THIS HELP!! PLEASE RATE IF YOU LIKE
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (5 December 2010):
 Make sure to use your lips to cover you teeth and you can use your hand around the base which will be wet and slippery from the spit. Take it slow at first and build up a good rhythm. Don't take it deeper than you are comfortable with which is why the hand placement is good and the most important thing of all is for you two to communicate what you each like. The best blow job you can give is the one he likes not the one someone else describes.
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