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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have asked questions about my bf's female friends before, but I'm still confused. Most people believe my bf has had these female friends longer than dating me. Not so in this instance, my bf does have some that are longer and we never talk about those. This friend came into my bfs life 3 months after starting to date me. We go to two different colleges 45 minutes apart yet we live in the middle of the two. I met her twice now just briefly my bf was asked to go to the opera with her and he asked me if I wanted to come thinking I hate the opera. I said yes and the second time I met her we set up to go see a play too. The time came and went with no mention, I asked my bf and he said that she didn't say a word. They make sure to have a class each semester together, found out he had been shopping with her and they get coffee together before class. I don't know what it is about her I am just so jealous. I tried what everyone said to do to get to know her yet nothing. Should I ask what play she saw and opera on her facebook? She had to because of a class. Also, what didn't help my bf said he would never date her because she smokes. I'm questioning if she even smokes now. How do I find out? My bf and have been together for a year and two months, it really didn't bug me until just before 6 months and now it's all I can think about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): Yes, please forget about these women and you can do that by simply focusing on the future with your bf. I sense a little jealousy and Ill heed that emotion expends a lot of unneeded attention and energy. I, too, am a very jealous person. If you need to, set some boundaires with him..and compromise on some potential situations to help you feel better. After that, focus on just you and him...this will help your relationship progress much easier and....with more ease :)
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (5 December 2010):
 Focus your thoughts on other things. If you spend all your time dwelling on this you will drive yourself crazy.
Just be the best girlfriend you can be and stop thinking about other women. He is with you for you. Remember that.
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