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anonymous
writes:okay i been dating this boy now for amost a year we had our ups and our downs but we got through them a couple weeks ago i found out that he cheated on me with my brother girlfreind but we got over that i forgave him than just the other day his baby mommy text my phone and said she was 3 weeks pregant with his baby so later on that day i as him about he told me that he cheated on me with her once and that cant be his baby. everyboby tell me to leave him but its hard he was the first boy i ever love and the first boy i gave my virginty to so my qestion is that should i keep forgiving? and how do i get the strengh to leave him
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reader, loveistheanswer +, writes (6 December 2010):
 For cheating even once, no one deserves forgiveness. It is never right to cheat. In your case, it is especially crystal clear that you need to get rid of him. And now. Don't waste another second. He is using you and abusing you in the worst possible way. It doesn't get any worse than this. He doesn't even have any "redeeming excuse" like, "you neglected me" or whatever... he just seems like someone who can't keep his stuff in his pants long enough to eat a doughnut or tie his shoes... You have a complete and utter Loser of the worst kind on your hands, sorry to break it to you, but the sooner you realize this, and make the effort to move on, the better it will be for you and your life...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): Are you sure you are in your late 20s? If yo are you need to grow up a bit and see that you deserve better. This guy is walking all over you and you are letting him so easily.
He slept with your brothers girlfriend then he cheats with the mother of his child who tell you he got her pregnant again? Can't you see what a scum bag this guy is?
The first time he cheated should have been enough. Dump his ass and never look back.
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