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writes: If you were a popular girl in highschool but you thought you liked a really dorky and unattractive guy who you've known all your life and he really likes you, would you go out with him?this is for a friend and i couldnt decide what to tell her. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, INCREDIBLEME01 +, writes (6 December 2010):
I know popularity is a major thing in highschool, but ultimately she should follow her heart and not worry about what other people think. She could be wasting alot of good times at a time in her life that builds some of the best memories we cherish as we get older. Pus have you ever watched the shows about ugly ducklings turning into swans..lol not that is matters but he may just be a "swan" waiting to emerge. I say tell her to go for it. Life holds no guarantees either way.
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reader, Merilee +, writes (5 December 2010):
Absolutley.
If the girl is popular, whomever she dates will usualy also become popular. If she likes the guy and her friends are true friends, they will be more concerned about her happiness than her social standing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks that is so right. thank you so much!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (5 December 2010):
Why not? If you like someone, nothing should stop you. Popularity in high school, or anywhere really, amounts to almost nothing so that is and should not be, a factor.
I hope that helps.
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