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writes:So, as of right now i have a boyfriend and we tried dating before but i always had started making the converstaions so we broke up but then after about a month and a half we began talking and i started liking him again. Last night we had went to the movies and he still didn't talk to me, before the movie, and i tried but he seemed like he didn't want to? and i like someone else but i don't know if he likes me. what do i do? do i break up with my boyfriend and then just see where it goes from there?
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reader, BunnyAce +, writes (5 December 2010):
 it's always nice to have someone there for you to be with. I think that you are trying with this guy, but still have your options open. Don't miss out on something just for a guy that you don't have true feelings with.
See what else is out there. Maybe this guy will show that he likes you when you are single. Give yourself a chance to find someone that suits you. If you would like a social guy, keep on looking until you get what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): It may be that neither are the Grand Passions of your life. I noticed and was pleased that you did not indicate that you and your boyfriend are in a sexual relationship. So all credit to you on that point.
And I noticed that you were considering ending one relationship before starting the next. Another very responsible decision on your part, which is also all credit to your good commonsense.
In your age group I feel sad that so often teens are already rushing into wanting an exclusive relationship in the first place.
Maybe your current guy is still lacking confidence in sustaining an exclusive relationship.
Honestly it seems that too much urgency to confine 'friendships' with the opposite sex to exclusive relationships is a cause of such problems. Teens aged 13-15 cannot marry, buy a home together, though they can produce a baby. And the same teens can contract sexually transmitted diseases. And they can get in too deep too early to situations they are not yet equipped emotionally to deal with. Thus my opposition to sexual relationships starting too early.
Mainly because such relationships often lead to an expectation that sexual relations will be inevitable started at a too early age, before teens are ready to experiment with sex.
Which is why the law establishes Laws of Consent. Laws which many underage children think they can ignore. What a pity more teens can't just be friends with a whole range of friends, male and female, just as Friends, and not as
potential exclusive relationships. And not as potential sexual experiments, before they finish school.
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reader, tonik  +, writes (5 December 2010):
 I don't understand what you're trying to say, he doesn't want to talk with you generally or he doesn't talk at all when he's with you? You should tell him that you don't like it when he's always silent, Communication is vital in a relationship, he should make a plan because this could really depress you when time goes on. Hope you get what I'm saying.
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