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Dating and having sex with my best friend...?

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Question - (5 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *abyjagirlz13 writes:

I've been friends with this guy for about 4 months now. We're really close and tell each other everything. But now I realized I like him a lot more than just a friend. So I was about to tell him my feelings until out of nowhere he tells me he likes our other friend. and she likes him too. But I still decided to tell him how I feel anyway and he feels the exact same way. He even told me he wants to loose his virginity to me and i wanna loose mine to him. So now he's torn between me and the other girl. I was sick of waiting for him to choose so I asked him, "me? Or her?" he chose me. So where does that leave us? We're both too shy to ask each other out so now all we do is flirt and act like a couple even tho we're not yet. Plus he still flirts with her which makes me sooo jealous even though I shouldn't be since we're not officially going out. So I need some advice on really asking him out (or getting him to formally ask me out), to get this other girl out of the picture for good, and once all that is taken care of, how to have sex for the first time(like tips and what I should do..). Thankyou! 

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010):

erm think you already know what to do you seem to have the hole thing under control. I don't think your shy

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