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female
age
51-59,
*'sboohoo
writes:Hi I have been with my boyfriend(D) 2 years and we have had sum pretty bad situations happen throughout. he is 28 and I am 42. I look really young for my age but my body has its basic wears and tears from having kids n life in general. In the beginning he and I got along o.k we hung out he moved in with me like a month after we met. He has no job and drives my car. I used to party a lot when we met and after a while he started getting irritated with it although he was too.I found out he was still seeing his baby momma and another female so i kicked him out. We were broke up two weeks then got back together.I got car jacked left for dead and in a wheel chair for 3 months. He only visited me twice while i was in the hospital for two weeks. When i came home i really needed his help he wasn't there. He literally disappeared for four weeks no calls nothing and his best friend was coming over everyday helping me so i ended up having a relationship with him. When D found out He instantly called and then wanted to cum back.By then i was back walking. Eventually i went back to D and then he got shot and almost died. I tried to be there for him but instead he had his baby momma there.Once he recovered he moved back in with me. All we did was fight and then i lost my apartment. We moved in with his sister and i gave up the partying because he asked me too. I then began to calm my life into what he claimed he wanted in his woman. Well as a result i got very bored and started gaining weight a total of 70lbs in 3 months. At first he said he liked it and we started building a sort of friendship between us which is something we never had before. Our sex life got a bit better but he was hardly home. He would leave in morning like 10am and get home at like 3/4 am most nights. He stop taking me out and I stayed sad. Well his sister informed us she was moving and far away and asked us to go with her. He didn't want to and told me to find us another place. He said he loved me and didn't want me to move away from him. I found us a place, we moved in 5 days ago and since we moved in he has been acting like he hates me. He barely talks to meand when i say anything to him he acts like i have just said the most stupid thing. I'm not sure what the issue is and he wont talk to me so i don't know what to think. Really tripping hard off this and want to know if you think its love or convenience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): You know the answer. If it was love you would be askinthis question. Live on
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