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writes:Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been together for about three months, and it's a LDR. We did great up until last night. He said he can't do this anymore. The distance is killing him. Which it's killing me too, but i get by cause i know eventually i'll get to see him. I made a trip to go down there on January 7th and it's just gone. :( I guess i need advice on how i can get him back? please help me. i need him. badly. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2010): LDR are hard, and even if the distance is a long way or a few hours away.It is very painful. Just after 3 mo and he says he cant do it because he distance is killing him, in my opinion i just say BS and think its a lame excuse to a LDR break up. But if thats how he thinks then fine.You need to tell him how you feel about this,every feeling about it. You know how he feels, as far as you know. I dont imply he's doing something behind your back.Im just saying tell him, ok.Being honest and to know everythings reason why, i've found its good glue to hold a bond between two people.:)You can take something serious and eventually you'll both laugh later.:) It takes two people to have a relationship, two to talk, two work things out, and two to be in love.Are you going to be one of those twos? But remeber for me, Love isnt an emotion its a person.Xoxo Good luck :)
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reader, Merilee  +, writes (6 December 2010):
As in any relationship, it takes 2 to work. All you can do is have a talk with him and tell him how you feel. Let him the distance is hard on you aswell but that you are willing to work with him through the rough patch.
LDR is hard, on everyone involved, and it isnt for the weak. You have to have a very strong bond with the person and be willing to sacrifice alot in order for it to work.
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